To let go of the programming, what your teacher told you, what your mum’s best advice was? They are all past memories of you and them. They are not you – you are so much more than that – you are creative, spontaneous you are everything and anything ‘you’ want to be if you allow yourself to not be bound by past memories or events. The words that are written in books are dead (even these words) they are of the ‘past’ as the words you spoke before are. There is only the now. You cannot change what you said 10 seconds ago, let alone 10 years ago – so why try, for what purpose does it serve, but to keep you in past events and memories that prevent you living in the now.
We all judge based on past information but that is all dead, the next time you talk to someone , don’t judge them by the clothes that they wear, or their accent, colour or mannerisms – stop that noise in your head. Just relax and sense, feel the energy around them – does it feel good? Words only come alive when spoken, because then they have intent. (Energy behind them) I could call you a nasty (perceived) name, but if my intent was to be joking and friendly, is the word still nasty? So next time you speak to your better half, try using loving intent behind your words, do you notice the difference ?
Words on a page are stagnant like water, when anything is stagnant it becomes dis-eased, untrue. But flowing water is fresh, forever changing and true to nature. . I have always liked Bruce Lees quote but I didn’t know why until now:
So why fight yourself (Based on given information), we all perceive there is an us and them, but who are you really fighting – them or yourself? And are not the perceived just a mirror of all in some way, the only difference being that we have created a them, so we do not have to look at ourselves. Everyone is so eager to fight someone, but that’s because we are all scared of the unknown and really want to be controlled, do you want the responsibility? Many people want to get out of paying a fine for speeding, litter, dog mess etc, but in the case of speeding why are you going so fast? We all need to slow down, what are you running from? Why do you need to go so fast. In the end are we all running from death as we are scared? It’s not the dead that worries me, it is the living. For me we never die so why fear it.
Because the above is dead information my perspective will change over time, I will make mistakes and will remember from them. We need to let people and our children make mistakes and not control their lives – we need to stop judgement and let go of the past. Stagnant water can still spawn life but it is very limited in its abilities, where as flowing water serves all life. Being caught in the past is like the stagnant water, our ability to help others is limited by restriction, whereas to live in the now is like the flowing water, not bound by any restriction or limitations. Is it not through amnesty that we shall allow the flowing water that is life to flow again? As the bridges that we perceive were once built over the water have been burnt, is it not the case that the burning was just a limitation to mask the fact the bridge still exists and always has done and always will do? A mask to maintain that we always remain stagnant, as the water that lies still beneath it. Surely it is time to allow that water to flow again, for the bridges to be on view again. For us to walk the bridges and repair now what once was destroyed through perceived limitations and restrictions, created by ourselves in a them and us syndrome, through a desire to always be right based upon dead information.
I know that is what I should do. I know this is what I will strive to do. But in the end it is still up to you, I can only ever speak for myself, but I can speak with others that hold the same values as I do.